My boyfriend is boring in the bedroom how can I politely ask him to spice it up?!
He is your boyfriend and you should be comfortable enough to maneuver him around in the bedroom. You don't need to tell him you want to talk about something and embarrass the guy! Never be rude and tell him how boring he is. This is a sign of terrible communication and potential future problems!
You should have an intimate night at home and tell him what you really like and want. Perhaps during dinner or drinks you can get creative and naughty. Play a game of strip poker and dare each other to do stuff. At this point he will be soooo caught up in the moment and go with it as if he thought about it! Men usually catch on and notice how excited we get about stuff so they will repeat it. Keep doing this until you mold him to what you want.
My boyfriend still talks to his ex. Should it bother me?
If you are questioning then it does bother you! An ex is an ex and they should not be talking. This person at some point was important and physical with him. Is this something you can deal with? If you answered NO then don't! If for some reason they managed to be friends without benefits before you came into the picture then I don't think there is anything to worry about. But once again this turns into the respect factor. Does it bother you? If so ask him to stop and he should RESPECT that. If not then realize this is what you have to deal with or just dump him and find someone who has the same respect level as you.
I attract men but at some point they stop calling:
Women usually do something wrong within the first couple of dates to ruin their opportunity with a potential boyfriend. If this happens with EVERY man then YOU are the problem. Beware of the vibes you are sending out. Are you talking about marriage, kids with him, or an ex? Family problems? Giving him pet names? Always on your phone? Drinking too much? There must be something you keep doing that makes these men repel! Men are not attracted to women with issues who spill their guts within the first hours of meeting them! There is nothing sexy about toooooo much information! No one wants to hear about it! You want to vent and act crazy then go to a therapist not to your hot date! Composure is everything and if you act like a crazy woman within the first few dates he can only imagine how much of a circus you are within the first few months of a relationship! Just learn to relax and be very minimal with personal information. Sexy means attracting someone to want to know more about you and if you tell someone everything you are an open book and when one finishes reading a book they only put it away and go onto the next!
My boyfriend is cheap what should I do?
Ughhhh... Really? Must I answer this?! If you have a cheap boyfriend and you have stuck around long enough to keep complaining he probably won't change. This is something you should have molded at the BEGINNING of the relationship! Within the first weeks of dating you begin to notice his spending patterns and if you have not seen potential for him to spend he probably won't ever start spending! If at some point he would buy you flowers and court you then there is hope! You should not complain but hint him that it is the thought that counts and not the amount spent. If you want to con a man do not nag or ask for stuff repetitively it just turns men off! Rock his world in bed and stop being clingy. He will probably try harder and come around his senses but if he does not, then stop complaining and accept it. If you can't handle it and all you do is complain then dump him and find another man who will satisfy your needs!
Best Place to Scout a Potential Boyfriend:
STEAK HOUSE!!!!!!!!!!!! Ladies.... men looooooooooove to eat! Go to the finest steak house in town! Sit at the bar alone or with a maximum of 2 friends. You must be approachable! If you have too many friends it is more intimidating for a man to walk across the room and approach you or your friends. Make sure you are having a great time and not looking around the room as if you are looking for prey! Men don't like women who look desperado. They might take you home for the night but they definitely won't call you! Have a drink, laugh, and relax!!! If you go alone and feel awkward, well don't! Pretend you are waiting for a friend and trust me you wont feel so lonely when someone approaches you! Get dolled up, feel sexy and throw the green light out as if there is no tomorrow! Good luck! xoxo
